Spiritual and Reflective Readings
Spiritual and reflective readings offer a sense of depth and connection that goes beyond the moment itself. They often speak to love in a broader, more meaningful way—grounded in faith, nature, or a sense of something greater. If you’re looking for words that feel thoughtful, grounding, and a little more introspective, you’ll likely find them here.
A Writing from Baal Shem Tov
From every human being there rises a light that reaches straight to heaven.
And when two souls that are destined to be together find each other, their streams of light flow together, and a single brighter light goes forth from their united being.
An Old Apache Blessing
Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter for the other.
Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be companion to the other.
Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you.
May beauty surround you both in the journey ahead and through all the years.
May happiness be your companion and your days together be good and long upon the earth.
Blessing for a Marriage – James Billet Freeman
May your marriage bring you
all the exquisite excitements a marriage should bring,
and may life grant you also patience,
tolerance, and understanding.
May you always need one another –
not so much to fill your emptiness
as to help you to know your fullness.
A mountain needs a valley to be complete;
the valley does not make the mountain less,
but more; and the valley is more a valley
because it has a mountain towering over it.
So let it be with you and you.
May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you entice one another, but not compel one another.
May you embrace one another, but not encircle one another.
May you succeed in all important ways with one another,
and not fail in the little graces.
May you look for things to praise,
often say, “I love you!”
and take no notice of small faults.
If you have quarrels that push you apart,
may both of you hope to have good sense enough
to take the first step back.
May you enter into the mystery
which is the awareness of one another’s presence –
no more physical than spiritual,
warm and near when you are side by side,
and warm and near when you are in separate rooms
or even distant cities.
May you have happiness,
and may you find it making one another happy.
May you have love,
and may you find it loving one another.
Blessing of the Hands – Reverend Daniel Harris
These are the hands of your partner,
young and strong and full of love,
holding your hands as you promise to love each other
today, tomorrow, and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours
as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will hold you and comfort you
in grief and uncertainty.
These are the hands that will countless times
wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and joy.
These are the hands that will hold your family as one.
These are the hands that will give you strength.
And these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged,
will still be reaching for yours,
still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
Love is an Adventure – Pierre Tielhard de Chardin
Love is an adventure and a conquest. It survives and develops like the universe itself only by perpetual discovery. The only right love is that between couples whose passion leads them both, one through the other, to a higher possession of their being.
Put your faith in the spirit which dwells between the two of you. You have each offered yourself to the other as a boundless field of understanding, of enrichment, of mutually increased sensibility.
You will meet above all by entering into and constantly sharing one another’s thoughts, affections, and dreams. There alone, as you know, in spirit, which is arrived through flesh, you will find no disappointments, no limits. There alone the skies are ever open for your love; there alone lies the great road ahead.
Rejoice in life – A Parting Blessing – Alfred V. Fedak
Walk softly upon the earth.
May its beauty forever surround you, its wonders forever astound you.
May its wisdom delight you, its music invite you to dance and to play and to sing.
May you love and be loved by all that you meet; may you know and practice compassion.
Rejoice in the earth and in all of creation.
Wild Geese – Mary Oliver
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting–
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
