As you know, once you say, ” I Do”, you are very much saying, “I Do” to your spouse’s family and friends. How do you feel about that? How much time do each of you spend with your individual family and friends? Is everything a go there? This is a great conversation to have with the love of your life.  Will you still be going out with your individual friends without the other? Have you talked about what you each normally do with your friends and if that will continue after marriage? Where are you going to spend the holidays? Etc. These are very healthy questions to explore. For the record, I personally think it is very healthy to have individual friend time without each other. The agreement comes in on deciding what you and your friends will continue to do now that you are married. This may apply to some couples more than other, but again, a good conversation to have. 

By Keppen Laszlo, Officiant Emeritus and Founder of Elevate